Published: May 17, 2013
Genre: Christianity, Parenting
Source: Tyndale Publishers
Recommended for Christian Dads
Brad Mathias thought everything in his family was fine. A busy, contented dad he had noticed that his children weren't as close as they used to be--and his daughter Bethany, in particular, had become withdrawn and moody. But he assumed she was "just being a teen"...until he and his wife learned the secret Bethany had been carrying, one that rocked their family to the core.
In a last-ditch attempt to reach their daughter and to reconnect as a family, Brad and his wife piled everyone into the car and embarked on a wild, crazy, seven-thousand-mile trip across the country. As they drove, they realized how far apart they'd drifted, found unexpected blessings along the way--and journeyed together from pain and loss to recovery and healing.
In Road Trip to Redemption, Brad tells stories from the road about God's grace, shares principles he learned during the experience, invites you to consider your own epic journey as a mother or father, and calls you to trust wholeheartedly in the amazing love God has for your kids.
I'll come clean...what drew me to this book was not he spiritual component or the parenting component. What made me want to read this book is that I love road trips. I grew up taking road 4000+ mile road trips every summer and I know that we'll be taking our kids on such trips as they grow older. So, really, this book was right up my alley.
The thing is, yes, there is a road trip in this book...but it isn't what the book is about. Instead, this is a Christian parenting book. Mathias starts by giving us a brief history of his marriage and family, bringing us to the "start" of the story and the calling for him to take his family on this road trip.
While Mathias talks a bit about traveling with teenagers, he spends more time talking about the spiritual discoveries of his family. I found this incredibly interesting, but I will say that this is not really a book for someone new to Christianity. Mathias had matured in his faith in the years leading up to this road trip, his children were maturing in their faith during the road trip and I think a somewhat mature faith is needed to appreciate what he has written.
I also felt that this was more of a "fathering" book than a "parenting" book--there is nothing wrong with that. Mathias is a father so it is only natural that he would write from that viewpoint. However, as a mother, I found this book more as something I would recommend to my husband than one that I would read for parenting advice for myself.
I will admit that I'm knocking a quarter of a star off this review for this sentence, found on page 13: "I had studied both ancient and modern religious teachings of many faiths and customs; I had researched Eastern mysticism, Mormonism, Satanism, Universalism, Lutheranism, Scientology, Islam, Hinduism, and finally Wicca." Um, one of these things does not seem to belong. This good Lutheran lady is a little perplexed why Lutheranism would be included in this collection--we are actually mainstream Protestant Christians. Heck, we're the original Protestants. Theologically, we aren't that different from most other mainline Christian denominations, so I'm not sure how we ended up in this collection of his. (I'll admit I might be taking this a little too personally, but this is my review....)
So, not counting that sentence, Road Trip to Redemption turned out to be less a road-trip book, but more an enlightening story of a family's--and a father's--spiritual growth.
Tyndale House Publishers provided me a copy of this book to read in return for an honest review. I received no other compensation for this post.